Ahhhhhh the sweetness of the holidays. They’re full of family, driving, delicious food, and short on sleeping, cleaning, rest, and boredom. Then January rolls in and the daily grind picks back up even more intensely than before. In my household this is due to the resuming of graduate work, tax preparation, budgeting, and meetings with bankers, landlords, and accountants.
Here’s a look inside the window of our life.
Bo is the best dog. The best dog ever. Both Henley and Becca pull on him, squeal high-pitched squeals which certainly can’t feel good to his ears, and generally make themselves a nuisance to him. But he bears it all with unfailing good humor and love. Becca followed Bo all around the room, tugging on him anywhere she could reach. He eventually just laid down and placed his head onto her belly. I think he was hoping to keep her in one place and was resigned to his fate of being used as pull-squish-chew-kick-slap-squeal-ride-toy.
Here is Henley modeling some of her birthday and Christmas presents. Uncle Tanner got the hat and stick horse for her and Aunt Lexcie got her the cow jammies. She loves this horse. And she loves her rocking horses. And she loves her stuffed horses. And she loves her real horses. Horses of all kinds!
And little sister has to have a go with the stick horse. Becca thinks her ears and mane are the best thing to chew on and run through her fingers.
Somehow I missed sharing this picture months ago, but this is how much of our days were spent during the October and November months. Becca’s head was developing a flat spot from always sleeping in the same position. The cranial specialist told us that her flattening would repair itself with more time spent off the back of her head. So I became the tummy-time drill sergeant. Henley was my happy helper. I am amazed each day at how much Henley has fallen in love with her baby sister. Not once in the busyness and stress of adding another member to our family has she disliked or complained about having her sister. She may fight against me, or whine to Ty, but she doesn’t place any blame on her baby. I’m so very grateful for her bond and attachment to Becca. And for Becca’s attachment to her.
Along with her sister-ing skills, Henley has discovered a new talent…
Don’t ask me how she does it, I’ve tried and can’t do it. She’s got a special talent!
I’ve made time to make homemade bread several times this last month, and that means making time to grind cups and cups of whole wheat flour. Henley usually helps me with this job but she was helping feed cows so Becca had to step up. The ear muffs are for muting the high-pitched whine of our wheat mill. She didn’t mind them for about fifteen minutes, then she was done, done, done.
Oh these dresses! My mom bought these as Christmas gifts for my girls and they are adorable! I can’t tell you the number of people who commented on how cute they were for three Sundays in a row.
This misshapen doll was a project my mom and Henley undertook together. I do believe I cut out the pattern when I was nine or ten. My cutting skills obviously needed some improvement.
Here’s Miss Becca in her jammies from Aunt Lexcie. The jams remind me of the long red underwear worn by the characters in old Western films. Straight outta Mama’s saloon, drunk on milk!
Oh boy. When big sister is away, little sister will play! Henley bought this princess castle off of Craigslist with some of her Christmas money. She is pretty good about sharing with Becca, but doesn’t usually let her have free reign with the entire castle like this.
We had a fun day of sorting, counting, and more sorting of our calves a couple weeks ago. Becca and I stood outside the pens counting everything as it ran through the chute.
Henley used her sorting stick to help push the calves through the chute. She had her first experience of being yelled at by the boss (aka her daddy) and the hired hand (aka her uncle Trayce). Both times she was left in a puddle of tears because she “knows what she’s doing!” and she “did it like that last time!” I had to reassure her that Daddy does really want her help while also teaching the lesson that when it comes to working cows, Dad’s instructions are the law and are to be obeyed when he says and how he says. She pulled herself together and rejoined the work with a little more respect for what Ty instructed her to do.
Here we see the daily phenomenon of “Disneyland Dad” making his way into the house after a long day of work. I spend all day, every day with my girls and make every effort to create enjoyable, educational, loving, and secure lives for them. But the second Mr. Rancher walks through that door, it’s as if I don’t exist. He strolls in, throws the baby around for a few minutes, lets the pre-schooler ride on his leg around the living room, and in less that ten minutes he’s like Santa Claus. Moms just can’t compete with the roughhousing fun dads so naturally bring to the household.
Literally can’t compete, my 19 pound baby is hard to throw around very much. I use up all my strength just toting her around the house and dancing “my sillies out” with the three year old. Thank goodness for Daddies.
We’ve been practicing letters and rudimentary spelling for several months now, and just bought a magnet board to make use of our fun magnetic letters and numbers. Becca even joined the fun, she made quick work of scraping all the letters from the board and onto the floor. Babies are just so tidy and neat, aren’t they?
Henley was aghast at first, then she plopped herself down and proceeded with “this is A, this is H, this is Q, this is W…” as she replaced the letters.
*Ahem* there is a serious aversion to pants plaguing our house. It’s been going on for about a year now. I’m not sure what to do about it. For now, I’m content to keep it contained to my house so long as it doesn’t spread to public places.
And look what we have here! Another mischievous baby rolled and scooted right over to her dog. Bo knows he’s been caught playing with the baby again.
As always, we’re a very blessed bunch. We hope the same for all of you!